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Title: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: vette5573 on December 20, 2009, 04:02:34 PM
Evan (bedl365) passed away last Saturday at his home of a heart attack.

Lenn, Unimachi, Rich and I met Evan earlier this season for an away game at Menlo Park mall. He was  genuinely nice and the kind of man you would instantly like. I know he had at least one young son about the age of 10. Evan worked on the new Giant stadium and the indoor ski slope for Zanadu this past year.

If I find out any more information, I will pass it along.

My prayers and condolences to his family.

May God bless.

Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bed1365)
Post by: afan56 on December 20, 2009, 04:12:23 PM
Very sad. May God bless and comfort his family.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bed1365)
Post by: MightyGiants on December 20, 2009, 04:13:43 PM
OMG, this is horrible news!  He was too young.   My prayers go out for him and his family.

Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: Webster29 on December 20, 2009, 04:24:26 PM
I am so sorry to hear this.

Deepest condolences and prayers to Evan's family from ours.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: weeze on December 20, 2009, 04:40:15 PM
My most sincere condolences to the family.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: vette5573 on December 20, 2009, 04:52:40 PM

Evan E. Bedell
Share
E-mail Visit Guest Book
(Asbury Park Press)

EVAN E. BEDELL
AGE: 50 EDISON
Evan E. Bedell, 50, of Edison, died Saturday, Dec. 12, 2009, at home. Born in Red Bank, he lived in Keansburg moving to Edison 14 years ago. He was a carpenter working out of the International Brotherhood of Carpenters and Jointers Local, Plainfield for 30 years. Evan was a graduate of Keansburg High School. He was an avid N.Y. Giants fan, and followed the "Grateful Dead". A veteran of the U.S. Army, he was a member of the American Legion #338, Leonardo.
Evan was predeceased by his mother, Arline Mayer Bedell, in 1997. Surviving are his children, Ashley Bedell of Middletown, and Matthew Bedell of Edison; his former wife, Maryann Bedell of Middletown; his father, former State Senator Eugene J. Bedell of Keansburg; his brother and sisters, Brian Bedell of Monmouth Beach, Teresa Allen of Middletown, Lauren Sienkiewicz of Middletown, Bridget Stolpe of Middletown, and Meaghan Buchan of Keansburg; and his companion, Kathy Albergo of Edison.
Visiting will be from 2 to 4 p.m. and 7 to 9 p.m. Thursday, Dec. 17 at Laurel Funeral Home, 201 Laurel Ave., West Keansburg. The funeral will be at 9:15 a.m. Friday, Dec. 18 at the funeral home, followed by a 10:15 a.m. Mass of Christian Burial at the Church of St. Ann, Keansburg. Cremation will be in Monmouth Memorial Park Crematory, Tinton Falls.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: vette5573 on December 20, 2009, 04:54:41 PM
Evan's Guest Book:

http://www.legacy.com/gb2/default.aspx?bookID=10230749413674 (http://www.legacy.com/gb2/default.aspx?bookID=10230749413674)
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: Kmed6000 on December 20, 2009, 04:58:32 PM
OH NO!!!!  What awful news.  I have had many enjoyable conversations with Evan, this is just terrible.  RIP bro.

Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: jimv on December 20, 2009, 06:21:59 PM
My prayers go for the repose of his soul and to his family.  Amen.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: LennG on December 20, 2009, 06:23:57 PM
 WOW. I just cannot believe this news. We were just there with him.

Me deepest condolences to his family.

I am in shock. This is just terrible news.

Is there anything we can do for the family.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: jimmyz on December 20, 2009, 07:14:54 PM
This is tragic news.  We will all sorely miss him.  My thoughts and prayers go to his family.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: bamagiantfan on December 20, 2009, 08:19:14 PM
Quote from: LennG on December 20, 2009, 06:23:57 PM
WOW. I just cannot believe this news. We were just there with him.

Me deepest condolences to his family.

I am in shock. This is just terrible news.

Is there anything we can do for the family.

That sums it up for me too. I'm stunned.  :(
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: Jaime on December 20, 2009, 09:13:47 PM
May God bless his family.
Go easy bro.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: TONKA56 on December 20, 2009, 09:15:01 PM
 :(
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: Sem on December 20, 2009, 09:36:19 PM
My deepest condolences to his family.  This is very sad news.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: terrymeisner on December 20, 2009, 09:39:30 PM
my deepest sympathies to evans family.....RIP brother
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: tomeee on December 21, 2009, 07:47:26 AM
This is really terrible news.

Me deepest condolences to his family.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: miss86 on December 21, 2009, 07:50:34 AM
Terrible news. My heartfelt condolences to his family. Right before XMAS, how very, very sad.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: The Chief on December 21, 2009, 11:49:28 AM
So sad, such a young man.

I've expressed my sympathies to his family via the guestbook Vette posted.  Thank you Vette for taking care of this.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: Suburbanites II on December 21, 2009, 12:16:09 PM
I am very saddended by the news, RIP bedl365.
Title: In honor of our departed friend Bedl365- some of his greatest threads
Post by: MightyGiants on December 21, 2009, 03:25:42 PM
The board only goes back roughly 9 months, but Bedl365 was such a nice guy and gentleman that I think his wonderful contributions were often over looked.  He was a man that was interested more in hearing what others had to say than just giving his opinions.  I don't think I ever heard him speak an ill word toward anyone.  Here are some of his best posts.  RIP Evan you will be sorely missed. 


http://giantsfans.net/message_board/index.php/topic,11162.0.html (http://giantsfans.net/message_board/index.php/topic,11162.0.html)

http://giantsfans.net/message_board/index.php/topic,9843.0.html (http://giantsfans.net/message_board/index.php/topic,9843.0.html)


http://giantsfans.net/message_board/index.php/topic,11379.0.html (http://giantsfans.net/message_board/index.php/topic,11379.0.html)

http://giantsfans.net/message_board/index.php/topic,10399.0.html (http://giantsfans.net/message_board/index.php/topic,10399.0.html)

http://giantsfans.net/message_board/index.php/topic,11191.0.html (http://giantsfans.net/message_board/index.php/topic,11191.0.html)


http://giantsfans.net/message_board/index.php/topic,9581.0.html (http://giantsfans.net/message_board/index.php/topic,9581.0.html)


http://giantsfans.net/message_board/index.php/topic,11273.0.html (http://giantsfans.net/message_board/index.php/topic,11273.0.html)
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: Uni on December 21, 2009, 03:37:45 PM
I just found out this shocking and disheartening news.  Too young for this to happen.  Evan was a class act on the forum and it was a priviledge to have met him.  Very saddened by this.  Condolences and prayers to his family.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: TuckerF on December 21, 2009, 03:44:09 PM
RIP Evan and my condolences to his family.  Our little group has lost a solid contributor and we shall miss him. 
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: andrew_nyg on December 21, 2009, 03:50:58 PM
So sorry. It is always difficult to lose a loved one, but even moreso during this time of year.

My heart goes out to his family.

God Blesss Evan.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: todge on December 21, 2009, 04:49:10 PM
This is terrible news.  It certainly puts things like talking about football in perspective.

May he rest in peace.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: Sam56 on December 21, 2009, 05:19:55 PM
I too just expressed my sympathies to his family via the guestbook Vette posted. 

I had not read about Evan until a few minutes ago. I'm just shocked and extremely upset and sadden. My condolences and prayers to his family.

God Bless Evan.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: slg11 on December 21, 2009, 07:50:25 PM
How sad. My condolences also.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: Slick on December 21, 2009, 07:56:11 PM
Very sad news. My sympathy to his loved ones,and God rest his soul.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: Boog Man on December 21, 2009, 08:07:42 PM
I've been away from the board for a few days, and come to find this. What terrible news. My prayers go out to his wife and family. We've lost a number of good men here over the years, and Evan now joins them in our pantheon of friends. May God bless him and welcome him.

Boog
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: Iamboo on December 21, 2009, 09:08:22 PM
Terribly sad news.  My heart goes out to his family.

May he rest in peace.
Title: Re: In honor of our departed friend Bedl365- some of his greatest threads
Post by: Painter on December 21, 2009, 09:16:15 PM
What do you mean by departed and RIP, Rich.  Good Lord!
Title: Re: In honor of our departed friend Bedl365- some of his greatest threads
Post by: MightyGiants on December 21, 2009, 09:47:05 PM
Painter look at the post at the top of the board
Title: Re: In honor of our departed friend Bedl365- some of his greatest threads
Post by: Jim143 on December 21, 2009, 10:15:06 PM
Great way to honor his memory Rich. . .
Title: Re: In honor of our departed friend Bedl365- some of his greatest threads
Post by: Painter on December 21, 2009, 10:16:13 PM
I don't know why I didn't see it. Here I was watching wide-eyed at the Giants performance tonight, and then suddenly I felt all the air go out of me as if punched in the gut.  I'm heartsick by the news, and by thoughts of his family's agony. May God bless Evan, and give him rest. My deepest sympathy to his loved ones. 
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: Chris on December 21, 2009, 10:29:40 PM
Way too young. I hope he's enjoying tonight's game from the best seats in the house.

My condolences to his family.
Title: Re: In honor of our departed friend Bedl365- some of his greatest threads
Post by: Chris on December 21, 2009, 10:30:47 PM
Mighty, thanks for sharing these threads with us. Bedl365 will be missed.

Rest In Peace.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: babywhales on December 21, 2009, 11:33:28 PM
I am extremely sorry to hear such bad news.  i'll miss his "pointless tirades,half-baked opinions,spelling and grammatical erors and overall over use of sarcasm."  RIP Bedl365 
Title: Re: In honor of our departed friend Bedl365- some of his greatest threads
Post by: Rocky56 on December 21, 2009, 11:43:31 PM
Quote from: Chris on December 21, 2009, 10:30:47 PM
Mighty, thanks for sharing these threads with us. Bedl365 will be missed.

Rest In Peace.

I agree. This is a wonderful way to honor the memory of a valued member of this community.
Title: Re: In honor of our departed friend Bedl365- some of his greatest threads
Post by: vette5573 on December 21, 2009, 11:57:22 PM
Thanks Rich. This one is one of my favorites.     
                                                             

                                                           Have A Little Faith

"After reading some of the post game posts I'm glad that some of them weren't on the Titanic because I fear they'd be pushing the women and children out of the way so they could get on the lifeboat first.
   IT'S NOT OVER! There are 7 games left to play and ANYTHING can happen and until the Eagles or the Cowboys get to 11 wins I'm not ready to concede anything.
   The Giants played well enough to win. Yeah there was some questionable strategy. The "D' broke down in the end but they didn't get a ton of points scored on them by a team that's capable of scoring on anybody. Penalties killed our heroes today. Have faith my brothers."     


by
Evan Bedell

Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: PSUBeirut on December 22, 2009, 12:01:25 AM
 :(
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: Gmo11 on December 22, 2009, 12:09:32 AM
I cannot express in words how this news makes me feel. This is just tragic and terrible.  He was a great contributor to this board and just an overall intelligent fan.  He will be missed.  RIP Bedl365
Title: Re: In honor of our departed friend Bedl365- some of his greatest threads
Post by: jimv on December 22, 2009, 12:10:26 AM
GREAT tribute, Mike! :ok:
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: vette5573 on December 22, 2009, 12:23:18 AM
I'm sure Evan's family appreciates the kind words some of you expressed in his guest book. He has young children that will save that book to keep and remember their father years from now.

Evan went out of his way to get a group of us together this past fall. He was obviously fond of all the men and women here. I'm sure he appreciates all that has been expressed both here and in his guest book from that better place.

Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: XNYrnLA on December 22, 2009, 02:42:20 AM
My condolences. Sad indeed.. May G-d bless him and his family and loved ones.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: chiller99 on December 22, 2009, 06:23:59 AM
My heartfelt condolences to the family for their tragic loss.I know how difficult it is to lose a loved one during this season,I lost my Dad in October,some of you may remember him from the old board as deboo,and it just brings back so many memories.If there is anything we as individuals or collectively can do for the kids please keep us informed on the situation.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: RemembersHuff on December 22, 2009, 07:21:32 AM
Unbelievably sad.  I'm sorry I never got to meet Evan, I always enjoyed his wit and his insights. His family is in my prayers.

Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: tomeee on December 22, 2009, 08:34:23 AM
QuoteHe has young children that will save that book to keep and remember their father years from now.

Just a suggestion but how about we get a fund and bring his family to a game next year. I don't know how to arrange such things but would be willing to make a nice donation. This is a great community I know there are many here who could help and do something nice for the family.
Title: Re: In honor of our departed friend Bedl365- some of his greatest threads
Post by: MightyGiants on December 22, 2009, 09:40:55 AM
Quote from: Painter on December 21, 2009, 10:16:13 PM
I don't know why I didn't see it. Here I was watching wide-eyed at the Giants performance tonight, and then suddenly I felt all the air go out of me as if punched in the gut.  I'm heartsick by the news, and by thoughts of his family's agony. May God bless Evan, and give him rest. My deepest sympathy to his loved ones. 

I know how you feel Painter.   
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: madbadger on December 22, 2009, 10:17:10 AM
Rest in peace Evan.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: files58 on December 22, 2009, 11:27:01 AM
My condolences to his family. May they know of no more sorrow. So very sad.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: The Chief on December 22, 2009, 04:59:13 PM
Quote from: tomeee on December 22, 2009, 08:34:23 AM
QuoteHe has young children that will save that book to keep and remember their father years from now.

Just a suggestion but how about we get a fund and bring his family to a game next year. I don't know how to arrange such things but would be willing to make a nice donation. This is a great community I know there are many here who could help and do something nice for the family.

Count me in for $50.00.  Let us know what gets set up via a special thread on the board.

Thanks so much for suggesting this.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: Sam56 on December 22, 2009, 07:24:34 PM
Count me in too.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: BlueMoshik on December 22, 2009, 07:33:05 PM
What terrible news. My condolences to his family and friends.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: Bridget on December 27, 2009, 09:16:03 PM
All I can say is WOW. My brothers Kathy told me about the response about our brothers death on this website, and I must say he was blessed to have all of you who may (or may not)have shared his views about his beloved Giants. Just to thank you all, and please keep writing I am sure his son and daughter would love to look back on this someday and realize how truly amazing their dad was. Again Thanks to all, Please pray for his family
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: state_property on December 28, 2009, 08:00:18 AM
I recall seeing a post or two of his...definately will miss his "voice" on this board.  Things like this remind you of how delicate life really is...and just how resonate "here today gone tomorrow" really is.

His legacy here on BBH will not soon be forgotten =D> =D> =D> =D>
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: retrojint on December 28, 2009, 12:46:48 PM
I was sad to read about Evan's death.  My deepest condolences to his family, friends and members of this board, who will miss his keen insight and wit. 
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: bighitterdalama on December 29, 2009, 10:03:25 PM
I am absolutely stunned speachless at this unexpected tragedy. My heartfelt condolences to Evan's family.

Brian
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: MightyGiants on December 30, 2009, 11:39:16 AM
For any of Evan's friends or family that may look at this thread, I want to direct your attention to another thread that pays tribute to him

http://giantsfans.net/message_board/index.php/topic,11785.0.html (http://giantsfans.net/message_board/index.php/topic,11785.0.html)
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: vette5573 on December 31, 2009, 07:38:25 AM
Quote from: MightyGiants on December 30, 2009, 11:39:16 AM
For any of Evan's friends or family that may look at this thread, I want to direct your attention to another thread that pays tribute to him

http://giantsfans.net/message_board/index.php/topic,11785.0.html (http://giantsfans.net/message_board/index.php/topic,11785.0.html)
Quote from: MightyGiants on December 30, 2009, 11:39:16 AM

I merged the two threads so they are now all on this one.
For any of Evan's friends or family that may look at this thread, I want to direct your attention to another thread that pays tribute to him

http://giantsfans.net/message_board/index.php/topic,11785.0.html (http://giantsfans.net/message_board/index.php/topic,11785.0.html)
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: Cosmo on January 02, 2010, 08:31:33 PM
My heartfelt sympathy to his family.
Title: Re: I have sad news about our friend Evan (bedl365)
Post by: Shoelessjoe on January 04, 2010, 01:28:07 PM
This is the first I'm hearing of this since I couldn't get to the site to often during the holiday season.  I was debating on going to the NJ get together during the season but at the last moment decided not to attend.  I now regret that decision and only wish that I attended.  May you RIP Evan.