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Title: Age is such a cruel bitch
Post by: Jolly Blue Giant on March 08, 2023, 12:32:49 PM
Gene Hackman (one of my favorite actors) has lived like a recluse for the last decade or so. Here he is at 93 and a picture taken by the paparazzi that makes me sad. My Dad made it to 94 and that made me sad to see how such a strong man can deteriorate to a shadow of who he was

(https://i.postimg.cc/65PNPySH/Hackman.jpg) (https://postimg.cc/zVTMbXqW)
Title: Re: Age is such a cruel bitch
Post by: MightyGiants on March 08, 2023, 12:38:31 PM
growing old sucks, but it sure beats the alternative ;)
Title: Re: Age is such a cruel bitch
Post by: Ed Vette on March 08, 2023, 12:40:25 PM
https://nypost.com/2023/03/07/reclusive-gene-hackman-93-looks-fit-as-he-pumps-gas-performs-yard-work/
Title: Re: Age is such a cruel bitch
Post by: Sem on March 08, 2023, 12:44:55 PM
Quote from: Jolly Blue Giant on March 08, 2023, 12:32:49 PMGene Hackman (one of my favorite actors) has lived like a recluse for the last decade or so. Here he is at 93 and a picture taken by the paparazzi that makes me sad. My Dad made it to 94 and that made me sad to see how such a strong man can deteriorate to a shadow of who he was

(https://i.postimg.cc/65PNPySH/Hackman.jpg) (https://postimg.cc/zVTMbXqW)

I think Hackman looks pretty damn good here for 94!! We should all be so lucky.
Title: Re: Age is such a cruel bitch
Post by: Sem on March 08, 2023, 03:36:13 PM
Maybe even younger than this...

(https://i.postimg.cc/HxWrpktL/0kdau-W2-Lv7-Genc-ZFq.jpg)
Title: Re: Age is such a cruel bitch
Post by: Bill Brown on March 08, 2023, 04:16:07 PM
I'll be 75 next month. I'll say I am in reasonable good health. For awhile when my back hurt or my knees ached etc. I would say getting old sucks but at some point I realized that getting old is great. I think about a lot of my friends who are no longer with us but for some reason I'm still here watching my 7 year old grandson growing up. And for that I am grateful.

Bill

Title: Re: Age is such a cruel bitch
Post by: Jolly Blue Giant on March 08, 2023, 06:32:01 PM
I've been doing genealogical research for more than 40 years and have visited a ridiculous amount of cemeteries over those years. There's one cemetery that has a headstone as a welcome sign. It says, "Never complain about aches and pains that come with old age, this place is filled with people who never got that chance". It always put a smile on my face whenever I've seen it
Title: Re: Age is such a cruel bitch
Post by: kingm56 on March 08, 2023, 06:39:14 PM
Wow...I would have never recognized him, Jolly! BTW, I'm in my 40s, but he's one of my favorite actors of all time too. Mississippi Burning, Bat21, Unforgiven, The Firm and Crimson Tide are some my all-time favorite's because of Hackman.   
Title: Re: Age is such a cruel bitch
Post by: DaveBrown74 on March 08, 2023, 06:45:54 PM
Quote from: kingm56 on March 08, 2023, 06:39:14 PMWow...I would have never recognized him, Jolly! BTW, I'm in my 40s, but he's one of my favorite actors of all time too. Mississippi Burning, Bat21, Unforgiven, The Firm and Crimson Tide are some my all-time favorite's because of Hackman.   

Great point. Hackman was one of those rare actors where you loved the movies he was in BECAUSE of him being in them.

There are plenty of big name stars that I wouldn't necessarily say the same thing about.
Title: Re: Age is such a cruel bitch
Post by: Jolly Blue Giant on March 08, 2023, 07:11:07 PM
Hackman quit making movies and said, "I was trained to be an actor, not a star"

A couple of my favorite clips of Hackman...the first one is with Denis Farina (loved him...may he RIP) in the movie "Get Shorty"...if you haven't seen the movie, Ray Barboni (mob boss/thug played by Farina) is looking for Chili Palmer (John Travolta) who has run off to Hollywood with Barboni's money. Barboni always dealt with his underlings with the statement, "look at me" before talking. Chili Palmer picked up the saying and dumped it on Harry Zimm (Hackman), who also likes the saying, so Barboni's pretty perturbed when Zimm starts off a conversation with Barboni and telling him to "look at me"...LOL



He was great as a tobacco tycoon in "Heartbreakers" (and another RIP, Ray Liotta  :( )


Title: Re: Age is such a cruel bitch
Post by: DaveBrown74 on March 08, 2023, 09:03:29 PM
Quote from: Jolly Blue Giant on March 08, 2023, 07:11:07 PMHackman quit making movies and said, "I was trained to be an actor, not a star"

A couple of my favorite clips of Hackman...the first one is with Denis Farina (loved him...may he RIP) in the movie "Get Shorty"...if you haven't seen the movie, Ray Barboni (mob boss/thug played by Farina) is looking for Chili Palmer (John Travolta) who has run off to Hollywood with Barboni's money. Barboni always dealt with his underlings with the statement, "look at me" before talking. Chili Palmer picked up the saying and dumped it on Harry Zimm (Hackman), who also likes the saying, so Barboni's pretty perturbed when Zimm starts off a conversation with Barboni and telling him to "look at me"...LOL



He was great as a tobacco tycoon in "Heartbreakers" (and another RIP, Ray Liotta  :( )




Great ones.

And then of course this gem:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZCZyxZYgKIg

Title: Re: Age is such a cruel bitch
Post by: MagicRat on April 09, 2023, 03:10:17 PM
Quote from: Jolly Blue Giant on March 08, 2023, 12:32:49 PMGene Hackman (one of my favorite actors) has lived like a recluse for the last decade or so. Here he is at 93 and a picture taken by the paparazzi that makes me sad. My Dad made it to 94 and that made me sad to see how such a strong man can deteriorate to a shadow of who he was

(https://i.postimg.cc/65PNPySH/Hackman.jpg) (https://postimg.cc/zVTMbXqW)

If I'm cutting about in jeans getting a coffee and a snack under my own steam at 94, I'll take that right now.
Title: Re: Age is such a cruel bitch
Post by: DaveBrown74 on April 09, 2023, 05:52:15 PM
Quote from: MagicRat on April 09, 2023, 03:10:17 PMIf I'm cutting about in jeans getting a coffee and a snack under my own steam at 94, I'll take that right now.

I'll take that at 84.
Title: Re: Age is such a cruel bitch
Post by: MagicRat on April 09, 2023, 07:58:34 PM
Quote from: Bill Brown on March 08, 2023, 04:16:07 PMI'll be 75 next month. I'll say I am in reasonable good health. For awhile when my back hurt or my knees ached etc. I would say getting old sucks but at some point I realized that getting old is great. I think about a lot of my friends who are no longer with us but for some reason I'm still here watching my 7 year old grandson growing up. And for that I am grateful.

Bill


I turn 60 in July, I lost my best bud when he was 43.
He was 4 days older than me (a fact I never let him forget?).

Turned out he'd been a high functioning alcoholic for about a decade and none of us had ever known.
His liver, and assorted other organs, simply stopped working.
I was always the piss head, the amount of times he got me home in one piece or stopped me getting into nonsense......

Anyway, point is you're spot on. Growing old is f-ing brilliant, I know far too many who haven't had the chance.

Enjoy every sandwich.
Title: Re: Age is such a cruel bitch
Post by: weeze on April 18, 2023, 09:16:18 AM
My brother just returned to Balston Spa from California, bringing my dad east. This was this past Saturday. Dad's 99 now, had to give up driving last year because he doesn't always see so well anymore.
 Mind is all there tho!
Body may be old but the mind is still good, looks like Gene is blessed as hes still getting around well!
 I have my house on the market, will be joining them somewhere in the area as soon as it sells.
 Hope to get a couple of Sundays in with my dad this fall.
EVERBODYS getting up there, its noit easy getting old. 
Title: Re: Age is such a cruel bitch
Post by: kartanoman on April 19, 2023, 01:06:41 PM
Wow, what an inspirational thread! Just turned 54, a bit of a nervous number in that I've lost a number of friends, colleagues, as well as my older brother, at that age. But I've done due diligence last year with check-ups, brain scans, MRIs of my spine, etc. because of the multiple head trauma I experienced during my goalkeeping years on the soccer field. Next month, I'm having a total knee replacement for my left knee, same leg I had complications from Achilles surgery compounded by past ankle fractures which have rendered it an arthritic minefield. Hoping the bionic knee will stabilize my gait some. In turn, the lower back issues which stemmed from all this I hope will be mitigated by my ability to exercise with less pain.

Getting older (NOTE I didn't say old) doesn't mean you are old. I think how the Weezer characterized his dad says it all. If you've still got it between the ears, and think and experience life, even if you're body can't do what it used to, you're still young at heart.

Jackie Gleason cited a quote when he was doing his roller skating skit on The Honeymooners when he said, "It's too bad youth is wasted on young people." Only Audrey Meadows could provide the perfect response, as his dedicated wife Alice, by saying, "You know, Ralph? I don't even mind growing old, just as long as I grow old with you." To which Ralph, in his famous words, replies, "Baby, you're the greatest!"

Peace!
Title: Re: Age is such a cruel bitch
Post by: MagicRat on April 21, 2023, 05:52:27 PM
Quote from: kartanoman on April 19, 2023, 01:06:41 PMWow, what an inspirational thread! Just turned 54, a bit of a nervous number in that I've lost a number of friends, colleagues, as well as my older brother, at that age. But I've done due diligence last year with check-ups, brain scans, MRIs of my spine, etc. because of the multiple head trauma I experienced during my goalkeeping years on the soccer field. Next month, I'm having a total knee replacement for my left knee, same leg I had complications from Achilles surgery compounded by past ankle fractures which have rendered it an arthritic minefield. Hoping the bionic knee will stabilize my gait some. In turn, the lower back issues which stemmed from all this I hope will be mitigated by my ability to exercise with less pain.

Getting older (NOTE I didn't say old) doesn't mean you are old. I think how the Weezer characterized his dad says it all. If you've still got it between the ears, and think and experience life, even if you're body can't do what it used to, you're still young at heart.

Jackie Gleason cited a quote when he was doing his roller skating skit on The Honeymooners when he said, "It's too bad youth is wasted on young people." Only Audrey Meadows could provide the perfect response, as his dedicated wife Alice, by saying, "You know, Ralph? I don't even mind growing old, just as long as I grow old with you." To which Ralph, in his famous words, replies, "Baby, you're the greatest!"

Peace!
A fellow goalie.......thankfully my keeping career has only left me with some crowns and bridging work.
It was always my dental health that suffered most.....
Title: Re: Age is such a cruel bitch
Post by: Bill Brown on April 23, 2023, 06:35:14 AM
I agree